chelseaandthecity:

Photos from Vera Wang’s collection had me in a frenzy this afternoon. Take a peek at the looks that made my heart skip a beat:

via Style.com

It makes me laugh so much…but before i explain why i love ladies men a little background info: I won’t waste my love. Its pointless. why would I ever be with someone who doesn’t put in the time or effort for me? you must of lost your damn mind buddy. there is nothing i haven’t been offered or anything of the sorts, whatever you have to offer the next one offers more. it truly makes me giggle every time some one thinks they can get with me. Im saving my love for a bad ass mother trucker who deserves it & worked for it. I’m not into dating around i think its awkward, and I’m not into texting/calling different guys dumb conversation just to have people to have attention. so lame. i have no problem being alone if i don’t like anyone, I’m not needy & i know my self worth. (doesn’t mean can’t be fun and flirty and young but doesn’t mean ill give it up) ON THAT NOTE , everyone says ‘oh do you think your going to find a guy who’s not out wasting his love’ I HOPE NOT! that would be awful!! i LOVE ladies men, get that shit out of your system why you can boys, i support it fully and understand double standards. They can have all the fun they want I’m not with them I’m not judging, I prefer that. I come in more when they are burnt out of all of that, more like the wifey type that hasn’t been used up & ran through like all the others. (but i don’t have any desire to have anyone wife me up anytime soon.) I think thats why I’m also attracted to older guys, they are just kind like ladies men…its like they have been around the block they have seen, heard, every girly type thing there is, so its nothing awkward its just.. comfortable. like i dont have to front about anything bc its already known all the “behind the scene things” like the fashion tape a girl uses to keep her dress from falling off her shoulder, or nip covers bc something required them, like if we partied all night then woke up the next morning obviously there will be black eyeliner smudged all around my eyes & face, or when we go shopping you tell a sista when something doesn’t look good and why..& a good ladies man knows how to socialize and be ” the man” but still knows how to show off there lady and make her center of attention. its absolutely perfect, it cuts half of the work for me, the only thing is tailoring their ways into a one women man, but by the time they get to me they Want to be a one women man. so basically i do nothing but be myself, love, and enjoy this fun man!! its like cake work. absolutely fabulous. it sound odd or maybe even dumb to you but its what i like & I’m stubborn and have no problem waiting for what i want. 

… different strokes for different folk i suppose :) 

How i think karma works….

So I think bad shit happens all the time and every day you have be the best person you can be, generally a really good hearted, good intentions, all around good person, just to break even. just to keep your head above the water. && “good Karma” comes around every time you think it won’t,  just to let you know you are doing good, it will come and reward you. But you can’t get cocky when that “good karma” comes around, just means you have to work twice as hard to keep the “good karma” up, like a little thank you karma. because as soon as you start slipping and getting to comfortable and cocky like ‘oh shit is going my way i can do whatever blah blah’ thats when “bad karma” comes and really screws you over. 

i believe that, & things always seem to work out for me so… 

Just a few things you should know before getting involved… with my blog that is.

If you think I’m nuts, probably won’t argue with you.

I keep it real. Only because its far too much work to keep up with lies and remember them, i always feel so guilty after I tell a lie which makes me the worst liar EVER, and lastly because you have absolutely NOTHING to lose when you keep it real. What someone won’t like you? boo hoo, they obviously were lame anyways. that being said I tend to come off awkward sometimes, I like to think its part of my charm. ;)

Im fashion obsessed. Im going to school for Fashion merchandising. which leads me to my other obsession, business. I think of everything in a business mindset. it thrills me. Im very passionate about fashion and I know it is what I want to do in my life, & I don’t do it thinking about money, I do it thinking about what makes me happiest. But one thing someone told was “if you are the best at what you do, you will make money”  

Im pretty damn ADD, not hyper and anger issues like ADHD but just all over the place in my mind, so naturally it will come out in my blogging. 

& the rest you can find out bc I’m already over this post…